Counselling is important. Home studies are great but it all stops after you get the child home. You are not my mother. Ask for help.
View the world through the eyes of the child. Your and child’s values may vary.
Parents have to be flexible. So much more stimuli in N.A. African children can’t get used to the new ways of society right away. Quietly correct it. In a learning way. Come to professional when struggling. No judging. Insight to recognize help needed.