Parents have to be flexible. No ideal child. Reality seldom matches your vision
Qualities in Adoptive Parents that guarantee success. Having partner’s support. Be united.
View the world through the eyes of the child. Your and child’s values may vary.
When adopting insist that your adoptive child is younger than the rest of children. Parents are protective of the youngest. African children have different concept of play. More advanced physically. Parents with patience but playful are the best.
Parents have to be observant. Do not react too quickly. Be understanding.